Wednesday, February 10, 2010

Make Over Your Bad Mood... by Sarah McColl

Since I've tried and failed to add a link to this post...I'm just going to copy and paste.

I LOVE this article. Its sooo simple, and so easy to impliment. Sometimes we all wake up in a "funk", but we have the power to overcome that funkiness and enjoy the day!! Try these easy techniques from Sarah McColl's article and I'm certain you'll see the difference!!

Get into a LOVING MOOD! :)

(My favorite part is "dancing around the living room to your favorite song.") :D enjoy!

Make Over a Bad Mood
by Sarah McColl,

Nobody, and I mean nobody, is Suzy Sunshine all the time. Bad moods happen. So after you've pouted and sulked, how can you makeover a bad mood? Here, some ways to turn that frown upside down, or, at the very least, get it back to a neutral position.

Say thank you. Say it to barista at your coffee shop, say it to the bus driver. Say it for all the little things you take for granted in your life: the crisp feeling of the sheets when you climb into bed, the amazing soup from the deli on the corner, your new red shoes that are somehow comfortable and fierce at the same time. Say thank you, too, for the big things we take for granted every day: a roof overhead, a loving partner who cleans the bathroom, and a sound body and mind.

Move. I doubt you want to hear that exercise will cheer you up, but what if we call it "movement"? That could mean a yoga break, dancing around the living room to your favorite song, or window shopping. Just get up from your funk and move. To get endorphins and blood flowing that will help clear your mind, try to break a sweat and go at it for 10 minutes.

Get to the roots. If you're in a bad mood because you and your sister had an epic blow-up, a spin on your bike might get your endorphins pumping, but the real problem is still going to be there when pop down the kickstand. Is there something you can do in 10 minutes to get to the heart of the matter? You might want to just pick up the phone to say you're sorry you fought without getting back into the nitty-gritty of who was right. Letting go of needling anxieties can completely banish a bad mood.

Go outside. Our minds our crowded little places and our homes can feel confining on a bad day. Everywhere you turn, laundry, dishes, and clutter give your bad mood more fodder. Studies show that getting outside -- or even just thinking about being outside -- can increase feelings of being alive, happiness, and enthusiasm. Being outdoors provides the sun and fresh air that our bodies need, but we connect with the energy of other living things increases our feelings of vitality. There's a reason why Thoreau got caught up in the soap opera of the ants at Walden Pond. Walk through the park or sit in your backyard to be reminded not only of the part your life plays in a bigger scheme of life, but how dang pretty nature can be. Sink your hands into the dirt, gather some leaves, or sit on a bench, the sun in your face, and just watch some birds flit from tree to tree.

Put it in perspective.
Sometimes things don't go your way and there's not a thing you can do about it. Like when the internet goes out before a big dealine or you get totally soaked in the rain while wearing those new red shoes. Sometimes, even, we just wake up in nasty funk without a reason. This isn't the new state of affairs -- it's just the way you feel right now, and as they say, this, too, shall pass. Just remembering the impermanence of the moment is often enough to remind you that soon enough, you'll be back to your old Suzy Sunshine self.

I found this article... here--> http://shine.yahoo.com/event/makeover/make-over-a-bad-mood-578298/

Ohhhh the SNOW!

The snow is absolutely beautiful, BUT I sort of have a life and things to do and it makes it IMPOSSIBLE.
Does anyone remember a winter like this before? Up until now, it only snowed on Friday nights of course and Saturdays, which made my weekends off pointless and frusterating. At least this time it happened on a Tuesday night(bonefish closed early last night and is closed today...)and Wednesday day and I get to spend a day in the middle of the week at home. :) I really wish I had a car that was even a little bit better in the snow than mine. Seriously, I can't go anywhere. Its a good thing Darick has an SUV, but he has stuff to do too/places to go.
I just wish that everyone I know and loved lived two doors down from me so that we could all frolick and make snow mans together. That would make me very happy. Then, after, we could all come back to my house for hot chocolate and hot cinnamon buns. Wouldn't that just be delightful? Hmmmm one can only dream. The only thing that would make that even better would be a real wood burning fireplace with a huge brick hearth. I'm warming up just thinking about it.

Here are some pretty pics of the snow just around our house. :)









Everyone be safe, and if you must go out in the snow in your car... please TAKE YOUR TIME.

Remember...
It's the month of LOVE! So enjoy it!! <3 <3

Monday, February 1, 2010

LOVE my new backround!!

Since I am celebrating this month of Love, I thought a new backround was in order. It's so romantic :)

I'm trying to figure out how to upload real pictures and have fun little gadgets on my sidebar. If anyone has an tips, please throw them my way!!